Being an exchange student coordinator is a mixed bag. I was sad that Ali's placement with his host family didn't work out. On the other hand, it's nice to have a student in the house again. Ali is an awesome cook, although he claims he's never cooked before. We are liking Indian cooking more and more. He's working on teaching Benny soccer. He enjoys sharing jokes and has the quick wit and sense of irony that is necessary for survival in our home. His mom in India has very good taste and for Mother's Day Ali gave me this outfit she had sent, saying now I look like a real Indian mom. Nice! But this embroidered tunic, pants, and scarf are way too beautiful to clean the kitchen in!
But Benny is adorable and sweet and just too cute for words. He has a way of waking me up too early in the morning, calling "Amu, Amu" (his variation on the German word for Grandma - Oma, that we've taught him to call me -- Dad is "Apu"). When I finally answer him, he looks at me earnestly with his shining innocent eyes and
He MUST be involved in all we do -- to be left out is unendurable. Look at his deft little fingers helping his Uncle Ben fix the radio controlled airplane. Ben worked fast to keep Benny from taping the wrong thing together!
In the meantime, his little bother is starting to walk. 5-10 steps before he crashes back to the ground, or does a controlled sit -- all the while looking at his for the cheers and smiles we so willingly give!

Anyone who knows Bruce, knows that a large part of him is a water rat. Every year he wears out a batch of exchange students with his enthusiasm for canoeing, and is always glad for new victims.
This photo ---> is the final end of one of his canoe explores. They got across the Columbia once, but the current was so strong they didn't want to risk being swept too far downstream recrossing the river, and I got to rescue them. There wasn't opportunity to unload the branches and torn up linoleum before I picked them up in the borrowed pick-up. Hey Ho! A riding through town we will go!
But for all that, this was really Zixu's month. Finally, after four years of hard work in a language that is still not completely comfortable for him, he graduated, cum laude, from his University. As the elected and hard-working student body president. He made the front page! The local news came and did a story on him, and his family that came to be at the commencement exercises. So exciting. To our surprise, a lot of people recognize US now after this article.
It WAS exciting to have visitors from China! Communication was just as frustrating for us here as it was when we visited them there last summer, but it was good to feel their spirits, and to show them OUR home and country. Alas, we
At home, the whole family got to learn how to make dumplings, and we at lots of Chinese food. I had hoped they would enjoy American food more, but when they didn't even like food from restaurants a whole lot, I was grateful at least the problem wasn't my cooking. Of course, Zixu's mother really is an excellent cook! I don't blame them for preferring her meals!
The whole purpose of coming was to see Zixu graduate, and seeing as they came such a long way, AND their son was Student Body President, they, and we, were invited to several dinners and receptions. We are so happy to have been able to be part of Zixu's life! We are so impressed with everything he's accomplished, and in a foreign land at that. The downside for him is that now he has two sets of parents. Very different sets of parents. That can't be easy!
Congratulations,
Zixu!
After all the hustle and preparation for graduation, we planned to go camping but got rained out. So instead, a relaxing two days at home before Zixu took them to Las Vegas, San Diego, Los Angeles, and San Francisco. Afterwards, two more days back in Washington, where we joined them for deep sea
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Phew MOM! I hope you get a break soon! But what awesome things you've been doing.
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